SEXUALITY and SPIRITUALITY part 3

SEXUALITY and SPIRITUALITY part 3

Since writing the first two parts on the topic of sexuality and spirituality in June, this topic remains important to many people, and I am often asked about it in my capacity of coach and therapist.

To summarise to date, there are of course those in 3rd dimension reality who manage to have a long or lifetime relationship with one other person, and there are those who fail to do so for various reasons. The main reasons are that expectations are different and they do not communicate their true feelings with each other, and eventually separate for their personal sanity and freedom, or that one cannot accept the need or desire of the other to have relationships outside the marriage of a sexual or non-sexual nature to fulfil something unavailable in the relationship. Essentially they are together though dependence of each other rather than as two independent spirits who do not depend, but enjoy their non dependence as a balanced couple.

The reality is also that 60% or more will have a secret relationship outside the marriage / partnership, not telling the other, but satisfying what they need and cannot get from the core relationship. Very few relationships satisfy all the needs of both partners.

The result is a growing number of people living alone in preference to living an unacceptable compromise.

There are two choices for those with the rising consciousness of 5th Dimension thinking of universal LOVE and compassion, which is beyond anger, jealousy and fear. It is natural and possible to love more than one person, but for many to admit that is a step to the divorce court.

Stay safe and unhappy in a suffocating system, the familiar, the fear, the comfort zone, surrounded by negative energies, and people stuck in their ways, wanting to move on but not doing that, OR
Move into the expanding consciousness WITHOUT THE BRAKES.

Many state that occasional relationships satisfy the body but not the soul. The one-night stand has lost it’s appeal. It is good at the time but not afterwards.
So what is the solution for spiritual souls having natural desires?
Have no expectation and suffer no disappointment. The only expectation is that any relationship should help with the spiritual path of each partner in some way or other.

These new spiritual relationships can be sexual or non-sexual. The relationship will be what people need for their own spiritual expansion.

Synchronistically the Universe will put in my path people who will advance one, or two or more aspects of my spirituality.

Occasionally one meets another and experiences instant chemistry. I believe that this can now be explained as the meeting of two spirits who already had a deep past life (or lives) connection. The 5D couple will continue from where they left off (in spirit) and it is the most amazing deep connection. You will know if you have experienced it. Chemistry is still a good description though.

It is a coming together again to exercise some karma, to learn, or have the opportunity to learn, some lesson. Where there is a spiritual connection, and a sexual attraction, the union can be made in a sacred way advancing the spirituality of both, that is to say like an act of worship acknowledging the Source or Divine, that we are a small part of something great.

I go out and search my dynamic force to experience oneness (not separatedness), to feel whole, fulfilled, in touch with who I am, seeking spiritual partners, of the same vibration, for my own personal development.

With many people still vibrating at 3rd dimension level it is not yet the time for everyone to be open and honest about these spiritual relationships, which are beyond and above state or church based recognition. But soon we will be able to be open and honest about the relationships we need and have. It is a big change from the established pattern of secret infidelities practiced for centuries while at face value those involved were often pillars of the Church and the Community.

Since Facebook many things are public knowledge. Society is moving towards openness and transparency in the same way that our personal relationships will have to move. It can only be for the good.

Copyright David Millner
October 2010