Simple Principles

I believe in some simple principles.
We are spirits enjoying a human experience.
What we think sends out positive or negative vibrations affecting everyone and everything.
We are all connected. One is all. All is one.
We are influenced by massive energies around us.
We can take control of our lives.
We can step from living in FEAR to living in LOVE.
We are controlled by fear but we have the choice to ignore fear and choose LOVE and to remain calm while disasters happen around us.
We need to do this.
We need to be in nature.
Nature has what we need to sustain us and energise us.
We are part of a rising awareness and consciousness.
Corruption, greed and power is being exposed daily.
Economic systems and dictatorships are collapsing as they no longer serve
our truths and our souls.
We are realising that material possessions do not bring happiness (even if they bring comfort).
More joy can be achieved by helping others.
We are moving to honesty and transparency for the good of all at personal and corporate levels.
More people are moving from heavy Fear vibration to the lightness of living in LOVE and LIGHT.

THE BALANCE BETWEEN DOING WHAT YOU WANT AND YOUR PARTNER’S FEELINGS

THE BALANCE BETWEEN DOING WHAT YOU WANT
AND YOUR PARTNER’S FEELINGS


You were young, exploring sex, wanting to try something different, but you were afraid to make the suggestion to your partner because you feared a negative reaction. OR You are mature, and are still afraid to ask.

Even you are single, but you don’t take the dance classes you would love to do because you think dance partners will think you unattractive, overweight or incompetent.

“He / she won’t like it if I go away on my own for a yoga retreat, to be with strangers.”

“I have to be home at 1pm to make his salad”. Believe it or not this is a true situation. I know the person. She should teach him how to go to the fridge and prepare a salad!!!

“Tonight is the weekly event of my spiritual group, but my partner suggested that we go out for a pizza, so I had better go for the pizza and miss my “hobby” evening.”

You wanted to go out on Friday, but did not tell you partner, who has now arranged something else for you both.

You want to spend time with someone with similar interests, of the opposite sex.

How many of us live a lie, in one way or another, to make life function?

It is often said that marriage is a compromise, as is any relationship between two people.

The examples above all reflect a number of simple facts.

LOVE. You love your partner so much that you don’t want to upset him / her by saying what you really want. By you being sweetness and light, and not demanding, you think that he / she will love you more.

FEAR. You fear the reaction so that you don’t want to upset him / her by asking what you really want.

Your partner may be the “stuck in his ways” type who will never change.

I am not advocating that where a partnership works, and all is peace and calm, that you suddenly start to create frictions, which you have been carefully avoiding for years.

Your partner may LOVE you so much that he / she would want you to do or have what you want, but if you don’t ask, you are PRESUMING his /her opinion / reaction, and not finding it for real. He / she would actually be upset to think that you did not say and do what you really want.

“He / she will only love me if……………..” is conditional love.

Take time to decide what you really want to do, both for small matters and for important ones. Starting with the small ones, test the water with you partner. “I would really like to do this dear – it will only cost x, or I want to be out on Tuesday evenings for y.” “Does that affect your plans?

What kind of relationship do you have? Can you say, “ I am going to ….on Tuesday so I will be out”, or are the dynamics of the relationship such that you have to seek consent?

Many relationship issues reflect years of at least one partner not saying what he /she wants, just accepting passively what is, and building up frustrations and negative feelings which could have been solved by communicating years ago.

It is not too late to start communication about issues in your mind which remain unspoken, and which you want to bring into the open. You may be pleasantly surprised by the outcome. Or perhaps it will identify that you are living a lie, and perhaps it is time to leave the comfort zone of that lie, and start to live your truth, even if it may mean some initial chaos. What is important to you?

Our spiritual growth and true purpose in life can be more important than the comfort zone lie of a relationship. Let me remind you of some characteristics of the 3rd dimensional mind:

Fear, Anger, Jealousy, Victimhood, Ego, materialism, conditional love, control and living from the brain.

We can aspire to, and live in 5th dimension characteristics:

Peace, Joy, Unconditional love, honesty, openness, allowing, community, sharing and living from the heart. We can be happy for our partner to do what he / she wants to do, when we can aspire to this way of thinking.

We have a right to do what we want where it is with good intention, and without hurting others. Many people are out of balance and either control, or are controlled.

Will you hurt another by saying what you think, or are you challenging the other to change his / her perspective for the better? Do not prejudge this important point. They need the opportunity to learn too.

With better communication, good intention and unconditional love and understanding we will grow as individuals and create a better world.

Copyright David Millner
November 2010

EMBRACE UNCERTAINTY

EMBRACE UNCERTAINTY

The global economic crisis means for many people challenges and limitations, in financial status, in relationships etc.

The media as always spreads fear as one ego based structure after another collapses, or shakes. Who could predict the fall of Communism, or the collapse of banks and other financial structures? Undoubtedly there will be more challenges, even from natural events like volcanoes, restricting air travel and commerce.

Materialism cannot be sustained, while many global populations starve, and countries and citizens live off debt. Is it so important to have the ego-based trappings of life, a bigger car or a bigger house than the neighbour? People are changing their priorities.

Structures NEED to change. Ego based structures must collapse or adapt to growing consciousness.

These are not dreadful events threatening our long term plans, to hang onto dated systems and ideals.

Opportunities are being presented for us as individuals, and as businesses and governments, to change, to grow in consciousness, and in awareness. We have the choice to embrace these changes and opportunities, or to suffer and live in fear.

Now longer can we plan out the next 20 or 30 years of life. We can instead live for each day in gratitude for the blessings we have, and work towards a better, but different world.

Embrace uncertainty; strive to make the world a better place, to serve others and not to live for greed and power.

Embrace the 5th dimension ideals for a better, and different life for all.

See my 25 April 2010 blog “Living in the 5th Dimension and Releasing the Illusions of the 3rd Dimension”, a channelled message.

Move forward not knowing, embracing uncertainty, with optimism for the better world.

Copyright David Millner
November 2010

A cry for help?

A typical fear from a facebook friend, someone bombarded by the media, but trying the walk the path to the light:

“It’s not easy to stop eating cooked food as a staple. It’s not easy to believe 9/11 was an inside job. It's not easy to stand up in the face of seemingly insurmountable adversity. It's not easy to know that over 40 countries expose most all food to radiation with the excuse that it kills the bad bacteria, knowing that it also kills the good bacteria”.

But the “cry for help” could easily have said, “I feel different – I feel isolated”.

My response:

We are changing, the aware ones, take a step at a time, without fear, in LOVE, with an open heart and an open mind. There are many of us walking the path together. Share your highs and lows with your spiritual friends. You are not alone. It is great to join with a few like minded spirits and make a support group to discuss things. You can see from the responses, sweet yogini, that you have huge support. ♥♥♥