How Sad - How Not even a goodnight kiss for the majority of couples

How Sad - How Not even a goodnight kiss

for the majority of couples

According to a recent study, 80 per cent of couples don't even give each other a good night kiss before turning off the lights.

Getting eight hours of shut-eye is so important to most that it overrules a simple, "I love you" and a quick peck on the cheek before bed.

Conducted by UK accommodation booking site Travelodge, the survey asked 2000 people about their sleeping habits and behaviours and found that the need for sleep trumps even the quickest of pre-sleep affection.

An overwhelming 90 per cent of those surveyed admitted they don't bother whispering "I love you" to their significant other before hitting the sack, while 46 per cent sleep with their backs to their partners to ensure they get a good night's rest.

A quarter admitted that they can't handle having their loved one even touching them during the night as it will disturb their precious sleep.

According to relationship psychologist Corrine Sweet, body language during sleep can reveal your relationship dynamics. Interestingly, she notes that sleeping back to back suggests we trust our partner deeply. 

When the initial lust in a relationship wears off and the entangled and entwined sleeping positions end, couples will fall into sleeping positions that they are most comfortable with, says Sweet.

Only one per cent of couples in the survey said they slept in what experts called the "heroic romantic movie scene" position - where the man lies on his back and the woman sleeps with her head on his chest.

"Couples fall into habitual ways of sleeping together that suits their personalities and personal preferences," Sweet noted, saying that if you notice a change in your habitual sleeping pattern together, it may be worth talking to your partner about it.

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Sexuality the path to an abundant loving relationship

Sexuality and an abundant loving relationship can be profound and take you into other worlds, revitalize your body and remind your body of its most idealized patterns. Using sexual expression to regenerate yourself rather than degenerate yourself is the ideal you will pursue. Dealing with sexuality involves dealing with hormones, sex excites t

he very core of your cells, and the light encoded filaments become entwined with one another, in a magnet the energies all line up and face the same way. When you become sexual and do the dance that starts in your hormones, your whole body lines up in one direction, when you and another individual are lined up. You are like the north and south poles, your body turns into a magnet, when you and another individual achieve a heightened state of electromagnetic force you pull on one another and create a balance between each other, when you get really good at this you will not even have to touch each other, you can create this web of love between you, and it is through this force field that your inner bodies arise and go into other worlds.

We think sexuality is one of the most exciting gifts you have been given, and we want to guide you further along this journey. So that you can have a better time on earth, love yourself and love earth, because they are one and the same, and that means every part of your body, you need to talk about sex, make a commitment to accept every area of your body and to draw a partner to yourself who will honor every area of your body.

Know that your partner will be wanting and willing to be into this glorious part of your god/goddess force, you inherit the blue print of every person with whom you have sex, so you have not only your own stuff to deal with but theirs as well. When your body comes together with another's your chakras are stirred, and your kundalini is moved. If your kundalini is only moved into your lower 2 chakras and it is not a full body infusion, you can have hooks into the other persons auric field, and they can have hooks into yours. This is why it is important to be very selective about who your going to have sex with. Make sure if you are going to go for it that you have some kind of bond and commitment and that you plan on working things out. Because in this day of accelerated time and sped up energy you can take on everything from someone else.


~ Pleiadians on sexuality (lightworkers.org)